Documenting what really happens in a hotwife relationship. A hotwife is defined as a married woman who has sex with other men with the approval from her husband. Usually the husband either watches, joins or leaves the room only to come back and have sex with his wife after she is finished with the other guy. There is no jealousy in a hotwife relationship. It is based on openness and trust. As a husband, you take pride in knowing that your wife is wanted by other men. As a wife, you have and insatiable appetite for sex and you love your husband for allowing you to satisfy that appetite!